Take a trip to any jail or prison and you will meet hundreds of people who will tell you they are the “victims” of their circumstances. Travel through any big city and you will hear the same thing. Visit any affluent, high-class neighborhood, talk to the people there and you will discover the same thing. Visit a middle-class neighborhood in Kolkata, Toronto, London or Sydney and you will meet people who believe they are the result of their circumstances, good or bad.
They will talk about the opportunities they were given, or the chances they were denied. They may be grateful for the education they were exposed to, or complain they were denied the education they deserve. One person will tell you about how the wonderful childhood and upbringing was, while another will complain that he or she came from a “dysfunctional” family.
There is no denying that income, status, education, upbringing, neighborhood, family and many other situations will influence, effect and even determine the outcome of our lives.
But who creates the circumstances?
Your parents? Your environment? God? Destiny? Lost in all this analysis and the assumption of almost every unconscious person, you must acknowledge this one very important reality:
“The effect of our thoughts ABOUT our circumstances”
We cannot change what happened to us, but we can change our PERCEPTION about what happened to us. This is the key to changing our present circumstances and our future.
Our minds are like a garden. We can intelligently cultivate our garden, or we can allow it to run wild. If you diligently attend to your garden, it will produce the things you cultivate.
If you do not plant specific seeds, then the animals, wind and other elements will cause RANDOM things to grow which will likely to choke out the things you want to cultivate from your garden.
One thing is certain, “SOMETHING” WILL GROW IN YOUR GARDEN!
Just as a gardener must tend your garden and keep out the weeds, you must tend the garden of your mind, weeding out the thoughts of lack, limitation and negativity.
If you practice gardening of this kind, you will soon discover that you are the gardener of your soul. You will come to the profound revelation that you are not the victim of your circumstances, but the creator of them.
The reason is simple: Whatever you give your attention to and focus on shapes your character, creates your circumstances, and determines your ultimate destiny.
Please read that again!
What you experience in your life is directly connected to your inner state of mind. The most important thing you can learn about success, prosperity and happiness is that cause (thought) and effect (results or experiences) are one.
But face this important fact: You do not simply end up hospital, become bankrupt, or simply wake up rich, successful, happy, and healthy. All these CIRCUMSTANCES are the RESULT of thousands of little decisions, which are reached as a result of the thoughts you give your attention to.
Now, if you are like most people, this is the part where you start to mentally make excuses and argue with me. Perhaps you believe that what I just said is true for other people, but you are quite certain that you have been the victim of extenuating circumstances beyond your control.
I know. I know. YOUR situation is different.
Let us talk about how all this applies to you.
First, you must accept that on one level or another, you have manifested everything that is happening in your life. Even the horrific, nasty stuff!
I agree that you do not do it consciously. But you do it.
Now here is the thing…
You are surrounded by a data-sphere of information that promotes negativity, fear, anxiety, limitation, and lack. It pummels your senses from all directions. It comes from your TV, radio, the internet, your friends, family, places of worship and the people you work with.
Most people are so saturated by negative programming that they cannot even conceive a life of anything but struggle and complaint. What you read, what you listen to, and the people you talk with have a huge effect on the person you are and the thoughts you have. It not only comes from the media and other individuals but also from the government.
The doom, gloom and negativity that are perpetuated by the government are designed to appeal to the programmed fear of the masses in order to get re-elected. We elect and re-elect these people to “save and protect us” from the pending doom and gloom.
If that was not enough, consider that the microcosm of our mass culture can be found in entertainment and even sports personalities. Most of these people are insecure, self-centered and only interested in their own 15 minutes of fame.
However, they are not the problem. We are, because we are willing to spend countless hours and pay huge amount of money to watch them, mimic their lifestyles and even their manner of dress.
You must recognize that this data-sphere is continually programming you 24/7, and that almost 95% of it is fear, lack and limitation programming.
So what you have to do?
If you want to reach the highest levels of success, you have to zealously guard the input you allow to come into your life. You must control your own programming, and reject the poisonous stuff most people are trying to feed you.
In order to focus on success, it is imperative that you spend more time on your own personal growth. Each morning and each evening before you go to bed, spend time on focusing on something positive. Think Deliberately. Be grateful of what you have already. This shall pave the way for creating (and eventually receiving) of what you want.
Remember: You are the foundation from which all your dreams are made reality. This is the only way you can guarantee your success, wealth and happiness … The Secret of Deliberate Creation will open an endless source of money, power and love in your life.
Here is the secret: You will experience in your life what cause yourself, or others, to experience. Not only that, but whatever you cause yourself or others to experience will come back to you multiplied and increased. That is all you need to know! Understand this simple concept and you will be richly rewarded with a satisfying life.